However, a group of researchers have been looking at just that, and they have found that gratitude is a key player in our personal happiness. If we remember people to whom we feel grateful, and if we tell them how grateful we feel, we get a massive happiness boost (around 19%).
If they are not contactable, just writing down how grateful we are - for their words, their actions or being there - our happiness increases (around 4%).
A reminder for all of us to count our blessings, every day. Often. And to tell people when we are grateful. Often.
But wait: there's more. Consider those random acts of kindness from a giver's point of view as well. This is a Thai clip on paying it forward at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7s22HX18wDY.
References:
- SoulPancake (11 July 2013). The Science of Happiness - An Experiment in Gratitude. Retrieved 01 October 2013 from http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHv6vTKD6lg#t=358
- TrueMove H (11 September 2013). Giving. Retrieved 01 October 2013 from http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7s22HX18wDY
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